martyred

1. ADJ If you describe a person or their behaviour as martyred, you mean that they often exaggerate their suffering in order to gain sympathy or praise. (为博同情或赞赏而)假装可怜的[文学性] [ADJ n]

"As usual," muttered his martyred wife. “老样子呗，”他那故作可怜的妻子嘟囔道。

You put on your martyred expression, sigh and say, "If you really, really want to..."

你摆出一副可怜相，叹息道：“如果你真想要...”